7 Days of Sensuality-Day 1
Day 1- Self-Seduction (a solo experience)
Sensuality vs Sexuality
Sensuality is the ability to enjoy our senses: smell, sight, touch, taste, and hearing to the fullest. Sensual things make us feel physically good, be it delicious food, sunrises, massages…you name it!
Sensuality and sexuality concepts are connected, but not the same thing.
According to the Cambridge dictionary, sensuality is the expression of physical (especially sexual) pleasure or satisfaction. Sexuality can be sensual but is not necessarily sensual.
Even though sensuality boosts your sexuality, it goes beyond the bedroom. It is about paying attention to your five senses and deriving pleasure from the experiences. It is more of being in the present and taking in life around you.
Sensuality is a mindset and not entirely about sex.
Experience this in my Awaken Your Senses session. Sensuality teaches you to slow down and indulge in the beauty of life. To be present to enjoy the subtle and the mundane ecstasy of life. It reminds you that you are human and that everything that’s around you can be erotic.
My First instinct is to talk about how I would practice self-seduction, which would involve experimenting with sexy lingerie and sexy dresses, doing my hair, makeup, whatever, and going out to do my normal daily activities (if going to work, wear the lingerie under your normal work clothes, nobody knows it is there except you).
But since my audience is largely male, I want to also include some guidance for them. In my experience, I think men feel the sexiest when they are dressed up, in suits usually. Before you argue with me, be honest with yourself. I see the photos people post and when they are dressed for a wedding or even a funeral, they feel HOT. They stand differently, they take the photo differently. And they look HOT. The energy definitely does radiate.
So let’s all get dressed up, feel sexy, and make ourselves an amazing meal that we will for sure post because for some reason we just do that. I personally love food posts. Or go out to eat if you are like me and do not hesitate to eat alone. PRO TIP: Eat alone at a bar (choose a nice place) and you will have a ton of opportunities to engage in conversation without any pressure at all. You are not there to pick anyone up or to be hit on, just to make conversation and feel sexy.
Because I am single, I have done almost everything in my life alone. One thing I have always done is sit at the bar for drinks or dinner when I go out, and I get into conversation with anyone who is there.
When you are finished eating and have had a drink (doesn’t need to be alcohol, I drink club soda with lime in a wine glass), light some candles and do one of my solo tantra practices. HERE is one you can use.